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Imagine your child excitedly opening their lunch box to find a sweet surprise among their sandwich, fruit, and snacks: a handwritten note just for them. A silly joke, kind affirmation, or a quick “I’m proud of you” is a daily reminder that they are loved, supported, and capable of tackling whatever the day holds. It’s easy to make lunch notes a cherished part of your child’s school day—just follow our tips to start (or enhance) this memorable tradition.
Lunch notes are exactly what they sound like—little messages tucked into your child’s lunchbox to delight them during their midday break. They’re a simple but heartfelt way to send a piece of yourself along to school, even when you can’t be there in person.
These notes can be anything you want them to be! Some parents opt for quick handwritten messages, like “Good luck on your math quiz!” Others include a joke or riddle. Others draw tiny doodles, write encouraging quotes, or even use pre-made templates to save time. The beauty of lunch notes is that they’re as unique as the relationship you share with your child.
Tucking a small note into your child’s lunchbox can have a surprisingly big impact on their day. Here are some of the benefits:
Support emotional connection. A lunch box note is a tangible reminder of your love and support, helping your child feel connected to you even when you’re apart. This gesture can brighten their day and reinforce your bond.
Boost self-esteem. Positive messages can affirm your child’s strengths and achievements. Speaking with Parents, Dr. Suzanne M. Robinson Porreca, Director of Child and Adolescent Services at AtlantiCare Behavioral Health, shares “it has been shown that positive reinforcement is an excellent way to promote self-esteem and resilience.”
Provide encouragement and motivation. Notes can help your child approach challenges with a positive mindset, reminding them that you believe in their abilities.
Here are a few pointers for getting started with your lunch notes.
Don’t stress about writing lunch notes—just pick a few favorites from this list.
For Halloween, pick one of these lunch notes for a holiday-themed twist.
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